I'm a snooping fan too. Please keep in mind the no judgements tone of these BB's. Just telling you my thoughts. Knowledge IS power and my runaway imagination would have done me far more damage than not knowing stuff. I, too, marvel at the simplicity of the conversations. Snooping has provided me with more peace and power. It also has helped me learn how to strategize and not be accusatory, critical, controlling, etc. Each case is different.
