Snooping is a huge temptation but really gets you into trouble. I snooped to the extreme, and uncovered more then I ever wished to know. Then you are stuck with that information in your head and it will drive you nuts. I had to stop, or it would have destroyed me.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
