Is it ever justified to snoop about the OW if this is possible?
I have access to the RV that my WAS is living in (it's actually in my name). And I also see my H there and was there last night. Though he had hidden his regular phone so I couldn't check the caller ID, I could do it at another time when he was away and also look for other ways to find out who this woman is. I'll add too that my WAS and I do date one another regularly, though this would stop if I had enough control to stop it, because it is pursuing him and this doesn't seem to help him give up the women and come home.
Would it be in my best interest to try and find out who and where she is or not? Yes, my H would be unhappy. But four months ago I found info on the OW at that time and she split with him. And surprisingly he wasn't that mad at me, though he said if I did anything he would never see me again, this didn't happen.
