Deb, sorry things are not going well right now. I understand the feeling of being sick and tired of the crap. I remind myself that if it wasn't his crap it would be someone else's! It helps a little. Do you think you might be taking some things personal that aren't? Especially if you are feeling bad about your weight right now. If you don't like you then you may perceive that others don't too. I do that sometimes.
I've had real good results with the Zone diet. A more balanced carb, fat and protein diet. Eating only good carbs like fruit and veggies and lean meats. It keeps your insulin level instead of up and down. You can find lots of info about it on the internet. I think the South Beach diet is kind of the same.
So, maybe give him 24 hours and see how he is. Do you sometimes have off days when you just feel kind of depressed and sad and don't want to be bothered. Maybe that is what is happening with him. You see it as him pulling away and you want to grab him and cling on. I totally know that feeling. I have to find something else to do when I feel that way cuz it makes him angry too. He might just be in his cave for a little thinking alone time and it happened to be when you were trying to have a romantic time.
