Hi dfb, I'm just now getting back to post, shouldnt even be taking the time now to do that, but.....
Quote: He is so obsessed with her, and I can't imagine why. She sounds horrible. He shouldn't love her or hate her, he needs to be indifferent (to know you are finally home-free on this issue). I wish you both could get different jobs!
Yep, I know, and I totally agree on ALL counts. just letting him get to that point tries my patience to the limits. BUT, I firmly believe that I have to let him get himself there. I can't push or pull him there. He is making huge (well, okay, maybe more like "good sized") progress, but still.........
Quote: isn't he like a therapist at your work? And wouldn't it be against the rules (and ethics) to be going into other email accounts?
Yeppers to the first one; interestingly, to the 2nd one, policy is that ALL personal communication is forbidden, and all email correspondence is company property and subject to monitoring at any and all times. Thus, the guy who's email he got into has no password to protect his account, interestingly. Don't know who'd be in the most trouble, but I suspect it would be the guy who sent the emails more than H for getting into them. oh well.
I have made no move or decision about going to the guy or to his wife. I'm going to update in a minute, and will mention it there.
