hi Deb!

I was wondering how you were doing!!!! I am glad you had a very nice Christmas.

I wish you all could get away from Monster. There has to be some way that the two of you, as a couple, can show solidarity towards her leaving the two of you alone. At this point, he should have any alone-contact with her. If you could make her life miserable at work so she'd quit, that might work too.

That is AWESOME that he wants you to work out with him - do it every chance he asks, it will help both your body AND your relationship! Start writing down what you eat, watch how many calories are going into your body, definitely spend time reading about nutrition. It really helps!

I am really inspired by your patience!