Deb; You have shown me how much I mean to you and I am very honored and humbled by that. I have certainly been told that by others, only you have shown me in oh so many ways. I am truly the luckiest man in the world. In the end and as always you were right. The monster was nothing more than a whore with a silver tongue. You are such a better person in comparison and over time that just became more and more evident, yep, you are the love of my life and the person I was truly meant to be with. Every time I prayed to God to show me, it was you that he wanted me with, like the day she read your e-mail and you found your ring, that was what happened after we all three had prayed for a solution. Well, back to work for me. I love you very much and can’t wait to have a naked snuggle tonight. Your D
huh. still sounds like he's been in contact with her today, but maybe it's the kind of contact I should be grateful for!
I just have got to let go of my anxieties. and enjoy our progress in building our new M. still it is hard sometimes. On days when I get emails like this, no problem!
Don't know if it helps anyone else, but evidently snuggling up naked at night to H helped our sitch a lot. I actually did some research and found scientific info to think this might help....evidently human touch releases the hormone prolactin, which has been identified as contributing to pair bonding as well as to mother/infant bonding. So my thought was to start off slow and small touching him as much and as often as I could and to gradually increase to mega doses. Seems to have worked or at least helped.
I had to go very very slow at first though, because he was so furiously angry with me he didnt want to be in the same room, and avoided all contact he could. tiny little now and then touches were how I started, just a smile and light brush of the finger tips "by accident". what a sneak I am, now that I think about it. Oh well, desperate times call for desparate measures, or something like that.
