Hey Deb- I don't really have any good advice. Just wanted to stop by and let you know that I check out your thread pretty frequently because our sitch's seem similar- except my H still isn't talking about the A or apologizing for anything.
After about a year of only slight rollercoaster behavior and suspicions on my part, in the past month my H has gone back to complete depression/withdrawal by hardly speaking to me and sleeping on the couch. The part that makes it more difficult is that I'm 5 months pregnant.
I guess I just wanted to say that I know how you are feeling. In any given day I have moments of "down deep inside I know we will get through this" and then a few hours later "we're falling apart, I can't take it anymore, I'm not even sure if I want to make it."
