Lot of food for thought here, and I so understand where you are coming from, Slowly. I also still flinch every time my H changes the screen if I walk past. I wonder how long before I can trust again - he is certainly not working very hard on earning it or making positive changes in himself. So, I wait and get on with my life.

Your post and the responses have left me rethinking a lot of my own changes, responses to H, and communication in general. Thanks all!


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim