Tornadoed ~ tough time of year for us all. I agree with crazee4her.
I say go for it, but be cautious and thoughtful of how it may make her feel. Don't try to force any issues with gifts or cards. Do it because you want to. Not to try and FIX your situation, because it won't
Something nice and thoughtful but small ~ maybe a photo of the kids in a nice frame.
For me personally I couldn't not give a present as I would just feel mean. Do what your heart tells you is the right thing to do.
