My WAW has b-day next week. The bomb was labor day and I had already purchased a piece of art for her. I've decided to hang it here. Someday I'll tell her it was for her all along and present it to her. Maybe during Reconciliation or after the judge signs the divorce papers (maybe not then).
I might even buy more art for xmas. It's not jewelry so I don't have to wonder what to do with it if it becomes silly to give it to her. I can keep it here and if she should see it I can tell her it was a gift and refuse to say from whom. (and to whom).
I will send a card for B-day and perhaps photo of dog for xmas. Not sure about that.
