T, I don't know what to do either. Last week I was sure I wasn't getting WAH anything. I was just going to ignore the whole thing. Now I'm waffling and having feelings of guilt. One thing I am sure of is that I am not doing the shopping for his side of the family or his employees. I see that as a 180. I've been way too accomadating in that area in the passt and I think it was a BIG mistake. It's time he grow up a little and take care of some of this himseld=f.
I like your idea of something small but thoughtful. My gut tells me that your W may expect the same as you usually do for her and I don't know if that's the best thing, considering. Don't worry, I doubt that slacking off on her bday or Xmas will be the deciding factor for her as to whether she stays in your R
Good luck.
Spitfire23
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
