Quote: I've come to the conclusion that he has an aversion to normal female secretions. At the age of 43, he has a huge lack of knowledge the female body...I wonder if there are any aversion therapy techniques that would cure him.
You should really look into sex therapy for the two of you. One thing I've heard that they do well is behavioral therapy to help repressed people "get their feet wet", so to speak.
See http://www.aasect.org/ You might get some ideas on how to find a therapist in your area.
Although you might never get him to go. If you can't even get him to talk about it, I don't know what your chances are of seeing a therapist. These kinds of attitudes are kind of rare these days, especially in men.
What was his sexual history before you? You mentioned he had a bad first marriage. Does he ever talk about sex with XW?
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
