Welcome lorio, I hear that old "Pressure" word again. Its awful when your love is seen as nothing more than "Pressure". Having a "your turn my turn" is quite a good idea but you have to persist particularly when its his turn and he'd rather "knock". Think about having a schedule (like I do) of one (or if your lucky two) fixed days of the week. It's not spontaneous I know but it gives you something to look forward to!! It got me up from 3x per year to 3x per month. I'm always amazed to hear about women who go to such lengths to ML particulary at the wrong time of the month. I love the yucky female bits but my W's periods seem to last for ages and she won't let me anywhere near at that time. There's no way she would ever douche for my benefit. SD - I love HD women - just wish I had one!!!
