I totally understand where you are coming from with not being prepared to initiate contact and risking more rejection. And, personally, I think that may be the better move anyway. You've done all that before. Maybe this is a 180? And it's also part of your detachment.
Quote: But the Packers sure suck again tonight.
Oooooh, you peaked my interest. Are you a Packers fan? (I don't know a thing about football, except that the Packers are from WI, and that's where I'm living right now.)