I forgot to add earlier that my mom did follow up with her doctor, and she passed all her tests in grand fashion, she is very healthy. The only thing they thought is that she is dehydrated, and that can make you dizzy when you stand up. She thought she drank plenty of fluids, but will and has promised to do a better job on monitoring her intake.

Hey Opti! did you find out about your house today??

Detach, refocus, less consumed, working on it. Easier today when I'm out in 0 degrees and H sits inside where it's warm and cozy and talks on the phone to ?? all afternoon. You'd think he could offer to come help with the hay, or the pretty little &^%#*^# Christmas lights, or moving some equipment. nope. And I suppose I should ask for help, but no, that's my stubborn German streak shining thru! So then I come in and start supper in the slow cooker. An hour later he stands right next to it eating something else, and I said "guess I didn't get food started soon enough". He says, "I didn't know you were making anything." Smell it, see it, no comprehend. Not my problem. I'll have a nice warm meal when I get done with chores tonight.

Oh, I forgot something important! Detach, lovingly.


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Riding the trail less traveled.