WCW,

Hi,
I have been reading your thread over the last few days. Just want to tell you that you are an amazing woman and are doing a great job DBing.

My H left over 5 months ago and things are way better since I started Dbing 4 months ago but he is still not ready to come home.
Many times I have thought " if only he would not have left or only gone for a short while, then we would have better chance" .
Reading your thread has given me such an appreciation for how complex it is even when they dont leave home. Perhaps it is even harder as there are so many more interactions, which I know can be so tiring. (Dbing works but requires so much thought.)

Anyway, did not mean to hijack your thread just wanted you to know how your thread has touched my life.

Keep doing what you are doing!!!!

bravagal


Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05