good reaction out of your H by positive verbal reinforcement. Very True. Lately my problem is that I know so little of what he is doing that I don't know what to give positive reinforcement about. He hasn't been on a horse for months, and isn't around much while I am riding, and I sure wouldn't mind his input. And it just wouldn't seem very genuine to say 'wow, you did a great job cleaning out the bedroom honey!' Maybe he'll help with the tractor tire. Wanna see how much I can gush about a tractor tire? geez.

Me - GAL - focus. Christmas is rushing full speed ahead. I wanted to put up some outside lights today and got so sidetracked with all the other stuff I ran out of time and energy. I guess I can do it in the dark, after all, they are lights!


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.