my horse and I were named High Point Ranch Horse for the year. Woohoo! Way to go GF! That's something to be excited about
So I still have that hanging over my head hmmm... you're a sweetheart. I'd probably let him fix it so he's have a good long think about how things got to that point!
H grabbed some stuff and went to bed. Friend and I talked a bit, and I went to bed too. Boy was that weird, someone was in my bed! H was getting up early to go hunting this morning, at one point he rolled over on his stomach and I reached over and rubbed his back for a minute. I think he mumbled thanks. This is the thing that gets me with your H. He seems determined to keep up appearances in front of your friends and family. Has he always been this way. I know you're looking for a new year's change, but would it be like him to maintain the status quo for others until the last possible minute?
Has he seen his Dr. lately? Is it possible that he's suffering from depression after his accident? I mean, my H pushed me away and was so cold and distant during his dep. And I know that getting help for that is tricky with a man, and it's not the cure all, but just dragging his emotions out of the hole has helped things a lot. There again, you say your H is normal around other people... is he? Has anyone else noticed a change in his moods at all?
Just some thoughts. I'm glad you had a good Saturday! You deserve it
Thanks for the note on my thread. It means much to me
