Hey WCW. Piglet beat me to it. It is 100% time for WCW to take care of herself and forget about her H for awhile. I know you work like a slave and have little time and fewer resources, but it seems to me I heard you mention some time off (AND sick time). Do something you want whatever that is. Go somewhere, stay in a hotel in town, stay in bed all day, whatever. Take care of yourself ok? Send H a txt and say "You need to run things around here for a day or two." and forget about the household responsibilities.
