Her place might be fancy and worth a lot of money, but the daily work and grind is the same. He doesn't get out of anything by going there to bust his butt for her.
There certainly is an interesting dynamic between you two, isn't there? Well, it would be interesting if it weren't so painful. :\
It's hard to say anything without knowing him but it seems that he straddles this line between needing independence and needing someone to need him. Give him too much independence and you are cold and ask too much of him and he pushes away. I would guess that there is some kind of "man issue"/MLC mixed in there in regards to his W taking care of him after his accident too.
I wish I could give you the answer. I feel like I'm perhaps just starting to understand the questions.
Thank you ZenMan, you're the best. It always gives me a lift to see a post from you. Would you save me the trouble of looking back, post your blog spot again? or can I be so forward to ask - email?
Sure, but I have to warn you, as with most blogs, I'm actually pretty boring when it gets right down to it.
