Quote: In other words, you are being a strong, caring, worthy person while she is being needy and pressuring him!
I've been thinking a lot about this exact thing. H and I were unloading hay yesterday, and I kept thinking about OW and her place. I've heard her place cost over 1mm, and she's doing things that she needs H to help her with?? What I DO know for sure about my H is that he doesn't like to be burdened with someone needing him to do projects unless he is ready to do them, on his time and schedule. Like moving that gravel pile yesterday, if I would have said one word about it then the pile would have stayed frozen in the yard all winter unless I did something. I didn't say anything, and he moved it. So she calls him up and he has to run to her place, and now instead of being snug and cozy in an apartment without a care in the world she has responsibilities and commitments and needs and has to be out in the cold too. Her place might be fancy and worth a lot of money, but the daily work and grind is the same. He doesn't get out of anything by going there to bust his butt for her. I hope SHE doesn't figure that out.
Quote: Really, I can't tell you how much of a lift it gives *me* to know that you have gotten out of your rut and are feeling good again!
Thank you ZenMan, you're the best. It always gives me a lift to see a post from you. Would you save me the trouble of looking back, post your blog spot again? or can I be so forward to ask - email?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
