Hanging on/The Long Haul

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Hi Sheila! Brave enough? is that to say I want to go skiing or to brave the sub zero temps? but thanks for the encouragement! I'm glad you think my txt mssge wasn't pursuing, I get all gajumbled up sometimes about what is or isn't okay. But I do know one of H's big hangups is that he thinks our physical sex was seldom, and I thought his shower last night was a good time time to remind how Sunday nights used to be so good.......

It seems as if your H just wants to drift apart and away, but you're not making that easy for him.

That sounds good and bad! That's been said before, I'm a hard woman to walk away from. Must be true, H is still here.

This was on another thread
Quote: learning to co-exist with the unresolved

I was having these same thoughts for myself. Maybe my life/marriage/relationship is as good as it's going to get for awhile, and I have to just accept it rather than push it and end up in the wrong direction. I need to get thru this new set of holidays, and quit thinking it will be our last together. Last year I was sure it was the last year together, and here I am, a year later, still thinking the same thing. I guess that is good, especially because we had lower lows this year but we also had higher highs than the year before.

I need to keep my frame of mind on together forever and not together until January. Yes, I will continue to be a hard woman to leave!