Yeah I do want him to take me seriously. Because that seems to be a problem. I guess he may look at it like she isn't going anywhere. He's maybe just to comfortable?? I guess I was just afraid of making that appointment and him not going or refusing. It don't seem like it would help our marriage unless we both went. I know I could learn things by myself. But if he mever realizes the damage he is contributing then it just seems helpless.
But I guess I could also look at it to that he didn't say no. He just didn't answer. I sometimes wonder what he would say in counseling if anything. This is a very tight lipped subject for him.
