If the shoe was on the other foot I would feel grateful he was 100% honest with me. I would feel grateful that he gave me the chance to try and turn things around. I would feel grateful to him for pointing out my flaws in the marriage so I knew what to work on or what he saw as problems. I would feel grateful that I didn't have to guess as to what his issues were.
I didn't word the letter exactly as I wrote here. But the letter was meant to be honest basically of how lonely I feel.
See Honey you are lucky in the fact that your husband responds to you. He loves you and shows you his love. I know it wasn't always an easy road for you. But everyone here needs to remember I have doing this for 8 years. We all go through stages and very sadly this is a stage I am at. I have tried to suggest counseling. Whenever I try to talk to him he says nothing at all. He won't respond to nothing. I have tried as hard as I have tried because I didn't want to go through a divorce. I made vows before God when I said I do. I love my husband yes. But I just don't know how strong that love is.
