I gotta agree with cobra and GEL-- what earthly good can come of your enjoying the attentions of these men? It doesn't help your marriage. If you want to date, then leave your husband. If you want to work on your marriage, then slam and lock this flirtation door. This is pointless, erodes your self-respect, and gets you nowhere.
Did it ever occur to you that these men flirt with you ONLY because they know you're married, and if you were available, they wouldn't give you a second look? You're starving for love and attention-- I know that. But what you're getting from them is like styrofoam food-- it's empty of nouishment and will cause indigestion.
