You are on a road to destruction. If another man was able to get up the nerve to ask you out, against everything thing he knows about not getting involved with a married woman, then it tells me you are advertising the fact that you want someone. If you have good strong, respectable boundaries, he would have never got the idea that you would even be open to such an invitation. You need to take a hard look at yourself. This is the second man you’ve mentioned that is interested in you. How many others are there?
It sounds to me like you purposely flirt in front of other men and get them interested just to make your husband jealous. It also sounds to me like he has much better boundaries than you and knows enough not to play your game. If you are going to flirt, there is little he can do to stop you. Chasing after you is a losing proposition. If he does show jealousy, you will keep upping your level of flirting to get more attention from him. Other have already told you that you are playing with fire. What is it that you cannot see?
Regarding this weekend, why in the world do you think he should do anything for you? What did you do for him? Why are your focusing only on yourself? I told you before you are selfish. Is asking him to do things FOR YOU a way to not be selfish? Go read up on narcissism. This website (click here) has a lot of free info. There are plenty of books out there too. See how much of yourself is reflected in these articles. It is very destructive and unless you see what you are doing, all the advice people are trying to give you here will just go in one ear and out the other.
