I guess we are unique, that we can say what we feel. My husband it so tight lipped. But when he really gets mad he blows. Then you can tell he had been harboring for a long time. That is so unhealthy.

Gel, yeah I have been confiding things. But with this male friend I don't feel anything sexual towards him at all. There are just no sparks no nothing. Not to mention he is 10 years younger. I am just not attracted to much older or younger, either way. I guess there is always potential. I have always thought if anything ever came to down to me wanting an affair I would walk away first. I have been cheated on before and I think it is the worst thing.