Nop.....when growing up and even into my adulthood I had some really great friendships that were male. I found that males were easier to talk to. They gave really good advice. Also they didn't run around and gossip what you had confided in them. Maybe I don't know it could stem from counting on my dad more because my mom worked nights. None of these friendships even turned sexual. It is really hard for me to talk about these libido problems with anyone. Expecially not my female friends. Because there are female friends who we are friends with as a couple. Meaning husband and wives couples we get together with. The other female friends I have I am find I am so embarrassed to talk about this with because they have great sex lives. I feel so out of place and alone sometimes with having this problem.
Having a friend I was able to confide this in has been wonderful. I have held so much in. I have loved my husband so much and wanted to work on things. I guess I was hoping a male perspective could help things to give a males point of view. I also couldn't discuss this with family. Oh my gosh my family would laugh or think freak. All the males on my side are very high drive. They would think this is weird.
As for secrets I don't hold any secrets. I am always open about what I do or where I go.