cally,

I phoned up different counselors that were listed under our insurance provider and asked for brief phone interviews. The one who we are currently with is the only one who returned my call and took the time to answer some of my questions over the phone, also she gave me a brief idea of what her counseling style is...which was important to me. My H has had bad counseling experiences in the past and I wanted to make it quite clear we were going to save a M not validate breaking it up.

I highly recommend asking for a brief interview. If a C won't take a few minutes to answer a few reasonable questions then why spend your money on him/her?

GEL


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!