Cobra.Forst off if I want to go on what my husband has vocalized to me. Now by him actually SAYING this I take it at face value. He said he is not bothered by my friendship and he doesn't care what I do. He hasn't just said this once but several times. I am unclear why he would say something but act differently.
Why do I insist...I haven't insisted on anything. Pure and simple a friendship. My husband said he isn't bothered by. What satisfaction do I get from having a friend? Hmmm, someone to talk to, laugh with, lean on, one that I also do the same with. How could I be inconsiderate and self centered if this is something that he states doesn't bother him. Again vocally he has SAID he doesn't care what I do. But hm what else do I do besides have a friendship...I clean the house all day, go to work, come home and clean some more. On days off I run all our errands, pay the bills, handle all finances, do homework with the kiddos, volunteer at the kiddos school, do yard work and anything else that needs to be done.
Oh and by the way my husband feels people can have friendships of the opposite sex. He also states that he is not a jealous person.
