MY husband and I seem to be doing a little better. We had a great EC over the holidays and even ML once. I was kind of disappointed though that it was only once considering he had 5 days off. One thing he has made very clear is he don't care what I do. He states that he is NOT jealous. He always says that he doesn't care if I go out and again he states I don't care what you do.
Okay so the other day I went out with a friend briefly. This friend and is only a friend is a male. It's no secret this male friend thinks I can do better and was kinda angry when he heard hubby just left during the summer. So ever since going out with the friend hubby has been acting angry and very distant. He's been very snappy, stopped giving a kiss bye or anything. I have been angry though to because he doesn't help around the house a lot and I work just as much as him. So that to has cuased him to be hostile because he can sense I am getting tired of this and have complained. So I am sure that hasn't helped the EC. But I can't help he doesn't mean what he says about not caring what I do if his attitude speaks different.
One thing I have learned here is sometimes you have to bite your tongue. You have to try and be understanding and patient. We were talking about past relationships. He has engaged before and that girl had cheated on him. Matter of fact his ex wife cheated to. I said wow you had just left to go away and she was already cheating. He said kind of cocky well I guess once she had a taste of something good then she couldn't get enough. I wanted to say maybe she felt like I do. Or kind of ask him if things were with her like they are for us. But I bit my tongue. It amazes me that he is able to keep his ego up this well when we have been through so much do to his LL.