Quote: ---------------------------------------------- Which leads me to believe that he IS laying there thinking, Man I wish she'd just leave me alone...... ----------------------------------------------
Nope.
What he is thinking is "come on hard on". He is feeling performance anxiety. There is a normal physiological time delay between stimulation, brain recognition, and the appropriate deployment of chemicals necessary for the desired result.
With my background, I can basically think "hard on" and get one in 30 seconds or so, but I worked at that for years. It is a real treat for me to be able to get in the bed, and stay soft for a few minutes as we both get turned on as opposed to be coming to bed all wooded up while working on MrsNOP to catch up. We don't do it the same way every night, but the option to be soft for a little while without any time spent in the 'penalty box' is very nice.
We have one little game we play occasionally, and that is to see how fast MrsNOP can get it in her mouth before it gets hard. There have been some good laughs there.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
