I think I'm insecure about it because it is the *only* time he takes a while to get hard. He gets hard from me brushing up against him; he's hard almost every night when I enter our bed.
It's only the JGI times that he has a bit of a problem. (and even then it only takes a couple minutes)
Which leads me to believe that he IS laying there thinking, Man I wish she'd just leave me alone......
And now that I think about it, even if he is thinking this, who cares? He eventually gets into it and we have a grand ol time.