I think that if you add a night of "just grab it" to your encounters here and there, you will find that hubby might be more willing to step up to your frequency needs.
"Just grab it" really removes the pressure issues and uncertainties of foreplay. Fear of foreplay is the second greatest inhibitor of more frequent sex (my opinion). He is wondering how he will be able to be original in his approach, or if he is being boring or if he is measuring up to you needs. If you forgo traditional foreplay and "just grab it" for a more aggressive encounter, you may be pleasantly surprised at his reaction
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
