GEL, This is what I was getting at, in my situation too. Someone has to be the one to reach out first, physically, and my H hates to do it. Mrs, I betcha this notion is as foreign to you as I don't know what, but there it is. Our men have an almost impossible time physically reaching out to initiate sex. So in some ways the schedule would increase that pressure, not take it away.
Otoh, it would decrease the pressure and disappointment in other areas and build confidence so it's a tradeoff that, I believe, would work out well in the end.
Honeypot, watching the prettiest snowstorm. big flakes drifting down slowly, so quiet.