CeMar, I don't happen to think that LDs have bigger issues outside the bedroom. I think it is the other way around. Remember they are not agonising about this stuff every second of the day. They are getting on with their everyday lives. You and me and the other HDs are the ones that have the issues outside the bedroom. Wishing LD would hug/kiss/flirt/touch us and not push us away when we try those things. LD is not endlessly dwelling on the frustrations and disappointments like we are. SD