Scheduling sex may help to a degree, but I have to think that for most HD spouses, over the long haul this would suck. That would be like telling the LD spouse that ALL communication will now be "scheduled", it will only happen 30 minutes prior to each "scheduled" sex session. I doubt to many LD spouses would find that "fulfilling".
As for the chemical things that happen early on, the degree to which this happens is different depending upon the person. You are talking about the infactuation stage. The problem is that many HD people spend their entire lives VERY close to the infactuation stage. So not EVERYONE hsa their desire plummet off the face of the earth, in fact the HD women on here prove that for many, this does not happen.
And another problem I see with scheduled sex, it does not address what happens OUTSIDE the bedroom. This issue is FAR larger then just the sex, its all about ATTITUDE. What about Flirting, Playfulness, Kissing, Cuddling, touching, sexiness. Being LD includes ALL of these issues, it is something that must be addressed 24/7, not once a week on scheduled sex day. In effect, being HD or LD controls almost everything about a persons personality and thus permeates every interaction between a man and wife. I might even suggest that being LD can mean even BIGGER issues OUTSIDE the bedroom then inside.
