Maybe you should ask your W if she wants to hear the physical details. My guess is she says no, but maybe not. Women tend to want them more than men but she is also a conflict avoider like my H so she may not. My H has stated several times that he does NOT want to hear any of the details of the physical R I has while we were separated. It would just cause him to get more upset. So, of course, I do not share. Give your W some of the control in deciding how much more she wants to know.
