That is hard for me to do (I don't fit into many foxholes), but I will try.
"Let your W digest all of this...this really stinks for her to have to deal with."
I do want her to have the space she wants/needs to deal with it. I need to find a way to validate that it does stink for her without it dropping me into a guilt fest though. Tough for me.
"But she will, one day, want it again. You just have to be patient."
I pray that the day will be soon.
"Other marriages have survived similar issues. Just look at the Clintons.;)"
OMG, I can't even imagine living like that.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"