"I think you just need to lay low for a while."

That is hard for me to do (I don't fit into many foxholes), but I will try.

"Let your W digest all of this...this really stinks for her to have to deal with."

I do want her to have the space she wants/needs to deal with it. I need to find a way to validate that it does stink for her without it dropping me into a guilt fest though. Tough for me.

"But she will, one day, want it again. You just have to be patient."

I pray that the day will be soon.

"Other marriages have survived similar issues. Just look at the Clintons.;)"

OMG, I can't even imagine living like that.


"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"

Inertia Creeps by Massive Attack