I've re-read your first post and I had missed that you have already told your wife about the entanglement.
I am interested in your perspective on your wife's lack of reaction.
I also think it is high time that you 'sweep her off her feet'. I think there are a lot of good times awaiting the Chromo household. The both of you just need a bit of direction and encouragement.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.