Dividing by zero are we? self esteem, leading to god like self impression. You are the black hole sucking us all into your vortex...
anyways, hey come back here and post dangit.
This book was saying that you have to be yourself, otherwise your soulmate won't recognize you. It's like a radio signal. You have to be sending out a true signal for her station to pick it up.
LIL, book title please. This comment made me diverge for a few seconds there. <shaking it off> I scrambled my signal intentionally for a long time there. Weird. I too think of women as recievers and I am the transmitter.
My term for it is congruence. being yourself, in positive manner. When you arent yourself the static she gets throws her all off kilter.