Quote: Well, as I have alluded to though, I am really down in the dumps right now. I am a bit hesitant to write why down here, because of what people have said, write as if you expect your S to read them (either now or later). I am not sure I want my W to know these thoughts. I know most people will just respond, only you can decide, but maybe somebody has some words of wisdom that will let me know what I should do.
Chrome, exercising literary caution just means that you do your best to present it in a factual way, representing the two of you as accurately as you can. When I read what NOP posted in the past, it was extremely painful mixed in with a pinch of pi$$ed-offedness. But, I don't recall reading any attacks on my character, any name-calling, any "I'm the greatest and she really sucks" kind of posts, or sexual flirtations with the other participants.
It was actually quite enlightening to read his thoughts, his perceptions, his take on incidents and conversations that helped me get more understanding on the undercurrents I was picking up at the same time.
