"Since your counselor is basically your employee, let them do the dirty work and suggest to your wife that she should come in alone. Why take on any resistance if you don’t have to? You can even side with your wife a little bit if she hesitates, to let her feel you are on her side and the empathic master of the universe that your are!"
Are you suggesting that I suggest to the MC that she ask the wife to come alone sometime?
I probably would rather be honest and tell the wife that I think it is a good idea to go see the MC alone if she asks (because I do think it is a good idea, thanks Cobra), rather than pretending to side with her, kwim?
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
