"Sounds childish probably but that really hurt my feelings."
Doesn't sound childish at all. I'll have to admit here that the W and I don't go to sleep at the same time most of the time. It is caused primarily by the fact that she nurses right before going to bed, so I usually do some housework, play around on the computer, or get grading done while she is doing that, and often she finishes and goes to sleep while I am still at it (I can get involved in stuff and go one-track mind sometimes). I really need to stop doing that, looking at nursing as a golden opportunity to get some work done, and instead make it a bonding time of sorts. Of course, the W usually falls asleep while nursing, but we could still build EC if I sat there holding her hand while she slept.
Sorry about what happened GEL. I would probably react the same way as you did. But I think that is one of those "gloom" responses that we just have to distract ourselves away from.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
