Hi HH, you sound sorta stressed about all your responsibilities and on top of that your new carreer. You've made a big lifestyle change, maybe just give it time to adjust? I think most women will say we do the majority of stuff around the house, I don't know why we let that happen, must be that bad rib we got so long ago.
I understand your example of a change that isn't acknowledged, big or small it's still unnoticed. But, is it really unnoticed or is he testing YOU to see how you react to him not changing? Just a thought. I go thru the same types of things too. Try and take a few steps away and look at the big picture from a distance. Then choose one or two things that you think you can work on and change to make a plus.
It's okay to whine here, but the cheese and crackers aren't so great!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
