well a day in the life of Fran seems as hectic as a day in the life of LL. Did notice though that there was no mention of where or what h was doing while you were doing all this stuff...did he come home at all between your waking up and your going to sleep?
as far as does anyone else cover all this kinda stuff? well with the exception of paying the bills, mowing the lawn and taking the trash to the dump...I do it all. Occasionally h will chip in but it's occassionaly. Like yours my h feels that his contribution is his paycheck and the lawn. Funny thing is I recall when we were first married I was working full time and there was no lawn (we lived in a townhouse) and I still did all the domestic chores.
What I was intending for you to do was look back at your first post on this thread and see what you could have done differently..in other words how you contributed to bringing the r to the place it is at now. No one's going to throw you a life preserver so you've either got to learn to swim in the ocean of your marriage or get out of the water.