Thanks for this post...have not been here for awhile and focused on other things when my WAW was having EA with OM. Now 3 yrs later, that is over but she appears to have MLC. Yes, I agree this post reads like a script. I also take comfort that it seems scientific and transitional.

She's threatened to move out lately and has given up her grip on the mattress by moving to the guest b-room.

I'm focusing on myself now, trying to avoid R-talks etc.

Wish me luck and I'll pray for all of you.


2d Marriage-BD 22 Jan 13
M 46 W 39-Married 6 months/together 3 yrs
Seperated by military (both on AD)
No Kids Together--W-D1(12), D2(10): Me-D1(14)
Divorced 24 Apr 13