wow this just described my husband to a T.But,he's not in a mlc or so he say's and the 24 year old ow is not a part of that.he was planing to leave me and the kids anyways.It's not how it looks.but ,it is just how it looks..It's all about them and they dont care who they hurt along the way.What hurt's me the most is the kids..how the hurt and these men dont even care..