Boy when I read the script it was liking it was written for my WAH. I got the ILYBNILWY speech, then all the things I needed to change, the crumbs of being nice then being mean, The don't touch me detachment stage Agreeing to be open minded about US then changing his mind knowing he is happier w/o ME and all the changes I make are "too little too late". We must be in the OW stage now. I found an envelope in his truck with a woman's name on it. I saw inside it was someone pay stub from work at a bar he played at 3 weeks ago. So I guess that is the set up to let me know he's seeing someone but still trying to hide it probably knowing I would walk by and look in his truck.
So many things are written write in this script. Of course yes, he must fullfill the fantazies of the women who WANT him because whomever will fulfill all his wishes. I, of course, after 15 yrs didn't. Oh and the asking my DS what I say about him and telling him crap about him being unhappy for the last 3-5 yrs whenever he tells you the time frame always changes. Oh even told my DS that he couldn't stand the fighting and how I made him miserable so he had to leave.
What an eye opener. When you call them on anything they turn it around on you and cut your personality down to BUILD themselves up to the point that some of the things they say are so silly you LOL later. Mine actually told me "I'm ________(town) next hot commodity you know". Give me a break. I should have said I needed to leave then because there wasn't enough space in the room for ME and his EGO!
